It was the Best of Times

Rarely am I saddened to see the new year dawn, presenting potential and hope and new opportunities. But this year, I can't help but think about what a wonderful, fulfilling, challenging and singular year 2010 turned out to be for me and those close to me. It seemed to go from great to great, and with that in mind, I've spoken aloud the idea more than a few times already, "How can this new year be any better?"

Of course it wasn't all sunshine, daisies and song, but it was a year of real personal accomplishment and growth. On the family side I've rarely been a more proud parent, and I saw significant maturity in those that I care about. In a work sense, I tried something new, and while I faltered and stumbled my fair share, I learned and tried and pushed myself. I was true to the work and therefore myself. In a spiritual sense, I was able to be part of some places in the world that few others see, and they are virginal, untouched and uncorrupted - mountaintops and deep tropical reefs. These places left an imprint upon me that I cherish.

So - with all these wonders - more than any other year I can recall, how does it get better ?

The answer that I both fear and understand is that it doesn't just get better.

There isn't a winning ticket to a good time that can be cashed in, or a price that can be paid to have this experience or that one. Money didn't buy the past year, as it wasn't (and isn't in the future) - for sale.

The year was earned though hard work, focus and pushing oneself beyond what you thought you could do. It was painful, dirty and often unclear if success would be reached. It required flying blind, putting your faith in what you knew and the wisdom of others and taking some chances. It required letting go and watching those around you take flight.

So the question isn't how to repeat 2010, but rather the question is: what am I most uncomfortable with, and how do I tackle that fear of failure to reach beyond myself.

That will deliver a new year's promise and potential.

Go on - try it. I dare you.