It's funny how some people are. They are otherwise smart and capable and seem to welcome broadening their minds and taking on new tasks. They seek out new things, and are willing to lend a hand.
They ask for input, and seem welcome it. Until that is, that they don't agree with it, or it doesn't flatter them, or support the position they've adopted, or goes against something that they feel passionate about. We see this pop up in politics, and when religion is discussed. There's even groups that are adamant about their teams (This year, the Cubs will win the pennant).
When these alternative voices are heard, they argue, fight and eventually run away, as they weren't really open to broadening their views, or understanding other perspectives. They were all about what they believed and that's all. If we're not on their 'side', then we're against them it seems.
I don't know about you, but I'm not actually aware of anyone (myself included) that knows everything. What I can say with certainty however is that when I see people (or myself) shut down to other points of view, other opinons or information that may make me consider other options - I know that person is in a dead-end.
So I'm absolutely clear, I'm not saying that different opinions will or should change their mind - but I am suggesting that when we close ourselves down and stop questioning what we thought was right, and draw a line in the sand - then we're in trouble.
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